Post by icemandios on May 27, 2023 1:33:09 GMT
There is an element of enmity here, as witnessed by the frequent exchanges between certain members.
As long as this has been going on, has anybody seen any changes?
Tom Hopkins, a sales trainer (read behavior modification expert), once said, "We continue to do what doesn't work. Once something works, we quit doing it."
Illustrating his assertion, he used the example of a cabinet door. One closes the door a bit harder than necessary, and the door pops back open. Irritated, one puts a little more force into it, and the door pops open again. And so on. Eventually, reason returns, and the door is gently closed. Having succeeded, one quits.
Notice, the door hasn't changed. The manner in which one has addressed the door has made the difference.
It is with hope that eventually certain people will realize that "slamming the doors" around here does not change the "doors," it only stops the noise.